We all have fears that we try to dominate throughout our lives. I, too, am always afraid of not being able to write the article I would like to do, or of irritating a guest so much that they do not have enough material for an interview. But my main fear is to write stories and interviews that don’t really interest the public and to be ignored. I’ve talked to tons of escorts throughout my interview series, but I’ve never thought about the fears these girls may have, so I decided to base my next interview on this topic. So I decided to speak with a beautiful escort named Lola to get the answers to the questions that blend in my head.
Lola has a beautiful body, a sensual face and very long legs, and she always has a busy schedule, but she was still able to find time to meet and talk. The meeting takes place at the Hoppe bar in Amsterdam during a free moment of Lola’s day.
Lola wears a cute short white dress and closed heels of the same color. She looks like Marylin Monroe and all the men in the club are watching her.
The time available to us is short, and the topic is very controversial, so the time has come to start with my questions.
“Hi Lola, thanks for taking the time to talk to me. Tell me about yourself.”
“I am 21 years old, and my name is Lola, I am a professional escort, and I have many clients to satisfy every day. I am sorry I have little time to dedicate to you, but I could not do otherwise.”
“No problem, Lola. Do you have a lot of experience in the sector, or have you just started?”
“I have little experience, I have been working as a professional escort for only four months, and I still have to understand well how this business works, but from what I have seen I can say that I love it! There is no other job that allows me to live this life and to have my privileges. ”
“What kind of privileges?”
“I don’t have to wake up every morning thinking about having breakfast, driving in the traffic, and going to the office to do something that I don’t care about, and that only enriches other people. I wake up when I want every morning, have sex, and get paid for; besides, I have beautiful clothes, and I live a luxurious life. I could not dream of a better life, and I am determined to make the most of this opportunity. ”
“You seem happy with your job, and I’m sure you’ve seen mainly the positive things about this business for now. I wanted to ask you a very personal question, and I hope you can give me the answers I’m looking for.”
“Ask me the question, I hope to give you the answers you are looking for.”
“What are the things that scare you most in your escort job?”
“Well, I have so many fears, exactly like so many high people. Do you want to know my main fear? I am terrified at the thought that all of this suddenly ends, or that everything turns out to be just a dream. I am living the life I have always dreamed of, and suddenly the alarm clock starts ringing, my mom comes and tells me to get up, because I have to go to work in the office. I scream to my mom, saying I was having the best dream of my life, and she ruined it. I would bear that all of this ended suddenly, I am not ready to find another job and to stop living my current lifestyle. ”
“Nobody can stop you from not being an escort unless you want to.”
“Yes, I know, but it’s still something that scares me a lot.”
“Do you have other things that scare you about your job?”
“I am afraid of taking some sexual illness and of not being able to work anymore, and this fear is shared by many girls. I am also terrified of not being able to do my job well and not being able to excite a man properly. I don’t know what to do if the client does not get an erection, and I would be in great difficulty in a situation like this. For now, it has not yet occurred, but I know that it will happen sooner or later. The veteran escorts have given me some very useful advice. However, I’m still so afraid of not being able to handle the situation. ”
“Aren’t you afraid of finding rude customers or bad people?”
“As for bad people, I’m not afraid. The staff is always very smart in selecting only the best customers for hotel meetings, and in any case, there are always people ready to intervene if the situation starts to become dangerous or awkward. If I worked as a prostitute on the street, well, I would be absolutely terrified of meeting evil people or serial killers, and I think I’d rather work in an office than risk my life every single day. But luckily, I have the opportunity to work with a team of professionals who know how to protect the safety of the escorts. ”
“And what about rude people?” ”
“I met some rude customers; in general, they are people who think they have some special rights just because they paid to have sex with you. I understood that it is essential to be respected immediately in order not to receive disrespect, and I usually manage to do understand clients to change their attitude if they want to have sex with me. Fortunately, I have found people willing to collaborate. ”
“I understand. How can you manage your fears?”
“I try not to think about it, and I imagine solutions to solve the problems that may arise.”
“You should only worry about things when they happen. It doesn’t make sense to worry about something that might happen, but that might not even occur.
“You’re right, thanks for the advice.”
The interview is over.